While having a conversation with my dad yesterday, I realized that I have been working full-time for 20 years! If I had stayed with the same company (which is probably a rare thing to do in this day of uncertainty, unemployment, and mergers, etc.) I would have been there for 20 years. I am thankful that I have had a relatively stable work history. I started working full-time in 1991 just before I graduated from college. I stayed with that company until 1999, surviving two acquisitions and managing to keep my job both times. In 1999, I went to work for an independent Baptist mission agency in Jacksonville, FL. I stayed there until 2002 when I moved to MN to attend seminary. I was unemployed from August to October of 2002 and have worked for the same company since October in 2002 in two different capacities. I have done the unenviable job of business to business collections (both in person and over the phone) Not my idea of a great job, but it paid the bills while in seminary, when I got married and when we had our first child. Shortly before my son’s first birthday, I changed roles within this company and now I have a somewhat less stressful job in the Financial Operations area dealing with manufacturer rebate contracts. It is an okay job, the pay is not competitive for this area, but the benefits are outstanding!
I am still looking for ministry opportunities, but there are not many to be had these days. In the meantime, I am trying to find something that pays better because we are expecting our second child in August and we found out that God will grace us a with a little girl! We have not decided on names yet, but I have stated that I would like to give her my mother’s first name as her middle name in honor of my mother who passed away in 2006.
April is a birthday month for our family. My sister-in-law celebrates her birthday today (2nd), then my dad and sister share the same birthday on the 10th and then I am three days later (13th) and my son is on the 20th and one of my nephews is the 23rd.
Turning 40 did not bother me, but now that I am turning 42, it is starting to bother me a bit because I have been looking at my life and what I have accomplished and what still remains to be done. I can remember when I was fresh out of college and full of zeal and ready to get busy for God and yet I was told that I could not expect to be hired by any church because of a few things: 1) I was young (23 at the time) 2) I did not have any experience 3) I was not married.
Now almost 20 years later, I am now looked on as being old (even at 42) still no formal church experience (being paid and having a title), but I am married and a father.
I also heard about one of my seminary colleagues who is getting ready to go into full-time ministry upon his graduation in May, he already has a place to go! I am glad that he will not have to experience what I have over this last year of rejections and lack of interest on the part of many churches/pastors.
Lord willing, the next 20 years of working will hopefully be more fruitful than this first 20!