So much has happened, most of which I have written about in greater detail in my journal that I keep in my Day One Journal
April 7th I found out along with 14 others that our jobs were being moved from MN to Dallas, TX. and we had 30 days to find something else within the company or take severance. First time for everything, needless to say I was stressed, but knew that God was in control even though I was not!
April 13th – celebrated my birthday
April 14th – April 19th – flew to CA for a Six Sigma Conference – was a finalist for the Greenbelt Leadership Award – did not win, but was very thankful just to make it as a finalist and got a free trip to CA which allowed me some time to go see my Dad after the festivities had concluded.
May 2014 – able to secure a new position doing essentially the same thing as before, but it will require us to move to Dallas, TX. We had explored this option last year but it did not work out for us. Now circumstances have changed and we are in a better position to take on this move.
June 2014 – secured a place to live in the Dallas area and making preparations to move.
July 2014 – leave MN for TX
Even though I am glad that I was able to find a job, it was hard to go back to the office to work knowing that 14 other people were not as fortunate as I was to be able to find another job and to keep working without interruption. That is the human side to these types of scenarios. Now, the new normal will start to take hold.
I have lived in MN for almost 12 years. God has been very good to me. I came here 12 years ago, single and younger. I am leaving now 12 years later, married, two children, and two seminary degrees and still working for the same company that I started with when I first moved to MN. Life has been very good in MN (except for last winter)
It is going to be a definite adjustment moving to TX in many ways. I will be glad that I wont have to pay anymore MN State Income Tax. I will definitely miss our church that has been an integral part of our lives for these 12 years. I will miss the Christian school that has played a vital role in the life of our son. I will miss the friends that we have made over the years. Facebook helps bridge the gap but can never take the place of in-person fellowship and conversation.
Instead of -30 and -40 we will be experiencing 100 and 110 F, so we are trading extremes. I grew up in Southern CA so I am used to the 100 and 110 F, but it will be an adjustment for my wife and children. I won’t miss the hour-long commutes that should only take 15 mins when there is 5 inches of snow on the ground. I wont miss having to get up earlier to scrape the snow and ice off of my car.
We have lived in the same place for the last 7.5 years that we have called home. It isn’t perfect but it has been our home for a long while. It is familiar, we know all the sounds and noises and where everything is. Now we will be moving to a new area with new sounds and noises and what we take for granted now (being close to Trader Joe’s, Costco, Target) will be a new adjustment learning where the Trader Joe’s, Costco, and Target are in our new community.
I found out that it is okay to grieve a little when going through these changes but not to let that grief and emotion paralyze and control you so you can’t move forward. I have found that even though I have said that change is okay, that this change is going to be a lot harder than I realized. I have been worried about my wife and kids and how they will make the adjustment and I was not addressing my own concerns.
With all of that… please pray for us as we make this transition at the end of July. We will be looking for a new school for our son (Christian schools so far have been very cost-prohibitive in DFW, any suggestions are welcome in the comments or via email) We will be looking for a new church home – this one greatly concerns me because in this area, we have seen the extremes both theologically and musically. We know we wont find something exactly like our current church, but we would like it to be somewhat close musically. One of the biggest adjustments will be not being as close to my in-laws. Right now they are two hours away and have been a great help to us over the years with many things. That will be an adjustment. We will be closer when they are in FL for the winter.
Another big concern is that I will leave behind a friend who was like a brother to me and was a big catalyst in me moving to MN 12 years ago. Unfortunately, he cut the ties on our friendship over three years ago and there has been no avenue for reconciliation. This person is still a friend and has been so for over 30 years, but they have decided to take a different direction in their life.
Tomorrow, I will probably preach my last sermon for a while. I have been very privileged to be able to provide pulpit supply in the MN, WI, IA areas over the last 10 years in various ministries. When I came to MN, it was two years after I had left FL before I received an opportunity to preach. Now that we are going to TX, it is like starting over again.
We are thankful and grateful for the opportunity and at the same time there will be some tears shed and that is ok. Please pray for us as we make preparations for this transition.
Thanks for reading and as always comments are welcome!